Years of walking out of rooms
People remember how you made them feel
I watch and listen to energy more than words.
Specific words mean different things to different people. But if I come in hot and heavy, mad, yelling, everybody knows that’s bad. It does not matter which words I used.
I have also learned that when I leave a room, people remember how I made them feel over what I had to say.
My mother taught me to judge people by their actions instead of their words. This is the same lesson pointed back at myself.