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Chapter one

Raising a family

I raised five kids. For most of the years in these pictures we lived in the foothills east of Los Angeles, and the pattern was simple: when we could get out, we got out. Kayaks, trout ponds, a crag with ropes, a tent under the oaks in December, a canyon in Arizona with a church group, four days in Yosemite with one son and a pack each.

These are the pictures I'd show you if you were sitting at my table. They start with film prints and end with a road trip across the country, and they're in the order they happened.

The early years, 2003 to 2006

A haunted house at Disneyland, Nala swimming out to the kayak every time, a trout pond where Tim and Sabrina learned patience, and all five kids lined up on one bench.

The Haunted Mansion at Disneyland, December 2003. The earliest digital photo of all of us.
The Haunted Mansion at Disneyland, December 2003. The earliest digital photo of all of us.
Newport Dunes, summer 2004. Nala swam out to the kayak every time.
Newport Dunes, summer 2004. Nala swam out to the kayak every time.
Tim and Sabrina at the trout pond, summer 2004.
Tim and Sabrina at the trout pond, summer 2004.
All five kids on one bench, June 2006.
All five kids on one bench, June 2006.
Sabrina and Josh, April 2006.
Sabrina and Josh, April 2006.
Tim, Donovan and Sabrina, Christmas 2006.
Tim, Donovan and Sabrina, Christmas 2006.

The outdoors years, 2006 to 2009

You realize looking back that you didn't take nearly enough pictures. So many memories live in my mind rather than in photos. These are some of the ones that made it. Two days under the oaks in December with a camp stove and a red balaclava. Real rock climbing. Deep Creek in June. Kites on the beach at dusk. Yosemite with Tim. A U-Haul in the summer of 2008. And a year later, a wildfire coming over the ridge behind the house.

Two days under the oaks with Tim and Sabrina, December 2006.
Two days under the oaks with Tim and Sabrina, December 2006.
It was so cold that ice formed on the tent from the condensation. We heated water bottles to try to keep warm. It wasn't enough.
It was so cold that ice formed on the tent from the condensation. We heated water bottles to try to keep warm. It wasn't enough.
Deep Creek, June 2007. We stopped here and grabbed some water, then continued to Aztec Falls.
Deep Creek, June 2007. We stopped here and grabbed some water, then continued to Aztec Falls.
Kites on the beach, May 2007. This was a traction kite, meaning it could pull you across the sand. Slow moving, but fun to play with.
Kites on the beach, May 2007. This was a traction kite, meaning it could pull you across the sand. Slow moving, but fun to play with.
Yosemite with Tim, June 2008. We went from Tuolumne Meadows down into the valley, and had the best pizza ever when we got there.
Yosemite with Tim, June 2008. We went from Tuolumne Meadows down into the valley, and had the best pizza ever when we got there.
Moving day, July 2008. This is when we moved to our place in Oak Glen.
Moving day, July 2008. This is when we moved to our place in Oak Glen.
Christmas 2008. Everyone played.
Christmas 2008. Everyone played.
August 2009. The fire came over the ridge behind the house.
August 2009. The fire came over the ridge behind the house.
That night.
That night.

Growing up, 2009 to 2013

A steam train in the redwoods. Snow in the yard with the dog. Donovan home from deployment, then engaged, then married in his dress uniform with the groomsmen in pink ties. Nick's graduation. And the spring we raised chickens from a box of chicks under a heat lamp.

Santa Cruz, July 2009.
Santa Cruz, July 2009.
Snow in the yard, January 2010.
Snow in the yard, January 2010.
Donovan home, June 2010.
Donovan home, June 2010.
Donovan and Melissa, January 2011.
Donovan and Melissa, January 2011.
The groomsmen.
The groomsmen.
Nick's graduation, June 2012.
Nick's graduation, June 2012.
Chicks under the lamp, February 2013.
Chicks under the lamp, February 2013.
Chickens by March.
Chickens by March.

The road-trip years, 2021 to 2022

With the kids grown, Suzanne and I spent the better part of two years on the road: Sedona, White Sands, Texas lakes, Tennessee, the New River Gorge. There's more of that on the hobbies page, because by then the camera had become a hobby of its own.

Sedona, December 2021.
Sedona, December 2021.
Above the New River Gorge, September 2022.
Above the New River Gorge, September 2022.

My mother, Antoinette, is in a lot of the years these pictures cover. She has her own page.